Kisah Pagi Tadi

Hi all... welcome back to work after a long...long...long weekend ye.... So, where did you guys go for the long weekend holiday recently?  Mine nothing interesting.... nanti I story naaa... 

Well... pagi tadi as usual I hantar Yasmine pergi sekolah and dropped her right in front of the 2nd entrance of her school.  Time Yasmine tengah turun kereta, tiba-tiba ada sorang budak perempuan ni menangis keluar dari pagar sekolah... cari mak dia... and some students kejar untuk tenangkan budak yang menangis tu... By the time Yasmine tutup pintu kereta, I dengar budak tu menangis cari mama dia nak mintak duit... the crying sounded more or less like this, "mama...mama... nak duit...nak duit..."  Being me so lembab, loading bufferring memanjang as my friend always said, I terus drive and suddenly baru I terfikir... why not I just stop the car and give the girl some money for her to spend during recess...  but it was too late... by the time I realised that, I was already passed the main gate.  Kesian budak tu....

I know sometimes the kids' attitude really getting on our nerves kan... especially bila pagi-pagi depa buat hal.  I'm so used to it... hehehehe.... But membiarkan anak kita ke sekolah without pocket money as some sort of punishment is rather cruel I guess.... Tak terfikir ke kita apa yang anak kita nak makan time rehat nanti kalau dia kita denda dengan tak bagi duit belanja?  Kalau anak kita bawak bekal tak pe la jugak... what if diorang tak bawak bekal.. and without money... what are they going to eat???   

Hmm... tak tau nak cakap apa dah... but I hope the next time if I encounter insiden yang lebih kurang camni lagi, I lebih peka dan cepat bertindak untuk membantu... no more loading and buffering ... hehehehee

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Introducing New Member of My Little Family...

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Gempax tak tajuk entry aku...???? hahahahaha....



Kisah Seram

Jeng...Jeng...Jeng.... kasi saspen sket...hahahaahaa.... hish... tak koser haku nak melayan.... kisah-kisah seram  nih... Peringatan:  Ini adalah sekadar luahan perasaan aku jek ye.... sebab pendapat manusia ni adalah sangat subjektif...

Aku menyampah la... sekarang ni kemain lagik..... rata-rata kebanyakan stesen-stesen tv baik yang pree atopon yang bayo dan panggung wayang menayangkan citer-citer hantu.. .kisah-kisah seram nih... apa our film producers ni dah kontang ideas nak bat cerita ke? aseklah cerita-cerita karut marut tahyul sumer ni yang korang buat...  Aku ni bukan apa... ini pendapat aku la kan.... kan ke hantu-hantu ni sume iblis, jin, syaiton yakni makhluk halus... makhluk-makhluk ni suka nak menakutkan manusia.... kalo tv dok tayang dan kita dok layan cite-cite cenggini, tidak ke makhluk-makhluk tersebut suka bila kita ada rasa takut pada dorang... sedangkan kita patutnya takut pada Allah SWT... Tuhan sekalian alam....

Lagi satu yang bat aku menyampah pasal citer-citer seram ni ialah bila anak-anak kita tengok citer nih... budak-budak kan.. opkos la otomatik dorang jadik takut.... aku yang mak budak ni pon takut... senantiasa terbayang-bayang..... inikan pulak budak-budak kan.... bila dorang dah takut, secara tak langsung tak ke akan menyusahkan mak bapak dorang??? Nak gi toilet kena teman... nak amik barang kat dalam bilik nak kena teman... haihhhhh.... serba serbi nak kena temanlah... korang sebagai parents tak rasa irritating ke???? sume nak kena teman... rimas okehhhh.....

Lagi satu... (berapa banyak punya lagi satu daaaaa...) cemana la bangsa kita nak maju kalo asek dimomokkan dengan citer-citer antu nih???? Tun M pon ada komplen okeyyyy... bukan ahkak sorang ye deknon.... Bangsa lain semakin maju ke hadapan... kita pulak maju ke belakang... dek kerana selalu sangat dimomokkan dengan citer-citer hantu yang pada pendapat aku xde mesej dan teladan apa-apa nih.....  Sekian, luahan perasaan dan pendapatan aku....

Ombak Rindu

Ombak Rindu... pada aku filem melayu yang paling hit la for 2011.... and i'm sure ramai especially peminat-peminat Aaron Aziz akan tengok filem ni.... aku pon tak ketinggalan wehhhh...hahahahaa....

Ingat lagi tayangan pertama filem ni was on Dec 1.  Aku ngan opismet aku punyalah nak tengok citer nih, sanggup tuuu... pi beli tiket time lunch hour tuk show on Friday, Dec 3. Beratur panjang sehhh.... bila pusing belakang aku tengok sumer fomfuan-fomfuan gomen berbaju batik beratur nk beli tiket OR okeh....Alhamdulillah... we've got our seats... walopon front row okeh... janji dapat tengok citer tu... Overalll aku puas la dok depan tu... dapat tahtap muka Aaron Aziz besau-besau kat skrin tu.. hahahahhaa...

Ok.. apa yang aku nak persoalkan kat sini, korang rasa seswai ke korang g tengok citer tu ngan bawak anak pinak korang skali...???? pada aku citer tu sangat tak seswai bawak bebudak okeh.... ko tau la jalan citer filem tu camne kan... ada scene kat disco... ada scene kat ranjang yang banyak... korang rasa seswai ke anak-anak korang yang sedang membesar tu tengok filem tu?  Fikir-fikirkan lah....

p/s:  Dvd OR dah release... harus wajib aku membeli...

Nora Elena, Kasih Yang Suci

I sebenarnya jarang sangat tengok cerita-cerita yang show timenyer kol 7pm-8pm nih especially sejak we moved in to our new crib..... last show yang I layan was Tiramisu... Tapi ntah macam mana ada skali tu tetiba je tertekan channel TV3 and ternampaklah lakonan abang Aaron Azizku... tengok cam best je citer tu, apalagi....teruslah layan....hingga ke akhir episodnya semalam....

I dilanda demam Nora Elena.... dan acting lakonan Aaron Aziz tu.... bisa mencairkan I.. (silalah muntah ijo).. sampaikan everytime tengok Aaron Aziz, I will say "Alahaiiii.... Hemsemnye Aaron Aziz nihhh" (dengan nada manja & gatalsss... *silah muntah ijo ye* hehehehehe... My hubby just geleng kepala and said this to me:  "U ni gatal la" hahahahhaha....

Macho nyerr abang Aaronku....

Disebabkan cerita ni best sangat, I decided to purchase the novel... dengar kata sold out kat semua bookstore... So, last weekend I try to purchase online... tp bila nak bayar tu dia hang la pulak... Recently my hubby told me that his officemate purchase it online.. so I checked with Wannie (hubby's officemate) dia beli kat mana and she said dia booking kat MPH.  I pon apa lagi.. dengan cargas called MPH Alamanda tuk booking the novel.  My last collection day was yesterday, June 16.  Jadinya semalam, I pon pegi la Alamanda to collect the novel... Elok-elok masuk je MPH tu, tengok bersusun-susun novel tu... cheh! kalo I walk-in ja pon xpa.... Tapi Alhamdulillah... sebab akhirnya kumiliki....

Ideal Muslim Husband

Most Muslim men would like to be ideal husbands. And most Muslim women


would, no doubt, like to be married to one. But, for some reason, the men


are not ideal husbands, and the women will almost surely admit that they


didn't marry one.



So, why the discrepancy between our sincere aspirations and reality? Is it


an inability on the part of the man, an impossible goal; or is it perhaps


that we do not even know what an ideal Muslim husband is?





Wrong Concept of an Ideal Husband


A look at the matrimonial section of an Islamic magazine will quickly


demonstrate that many Muslim men and women do not know what an ideal Muslim


husband is. Muslim men looking for wives advertise themselves as doctors,


engineers, and financially secure. Muslim women appear to be on the lookout


for an established professional or more likely a handsome MD.



Rarely do Muslim men and women even mention character, religious


convictions, and attitudes as a priority. At most, they might be mentioned


as a sidebar. It seems that many of us believe that a man is an ideal Muslim


husband if he is handsome, makes a lot of money, and comes from an


influential family. And the divorce rate among Muslims continues to rise.






Standard of Judging an Ideal Husband


As Muslims, we must base our judgment on what makes an ideal Muslim husband


on the guidance of Allah () and the example of Prophet Muhammad (SAWS), not


on the standards of a TV sitcom, the culture in which we were born, or our


own materialistic mentality.


Characteristic of an:

Un-Ideal Husband: Hot Temper


A major problem in some Muslim marriages unfortunately is the husband's hot


temper and harsh behavior. Some even go so far as to abuse their wives. Dr.


Quick gives a word of warning to these men who often come from cultures that


teach them to be tough and macho.



He says that there should be no violence between husband and wife and that


Muslim men should not be the kind of tyrannical fathers whose children run


away and hide when their father comes home. He says that we have to separate


our non-Islamic cultures from Islam. The ideal Muslim husband will base his


behavior on Islam, not on his Arab, American, or Pakistani culture.




Un-Ideal Husband: Egoistic

Another major problem in Muslim marriages is the husband's failure to


consider his wife's opinions. In fact, Abdallah Idris Ali says that the


failure of the Muslim Ummah as a whole has to do with our failure in


practicing the concept of Shura (consultation). People think that they are


right and others are wrong, he says.




We will do much better if we consider the opinions of others and let them


feel that they are a part of the decision-making process. Along the same


lines, Dr. Quick points out that if a woman makes a true (haqq) point, the


husband should submit to it. He should in no way reject a point just because


it comes from a woman.




Demonstrating the huge difference between the way the Prophet (SAWS) dealt


with his wives and the way Muslim men deal with their wives today, Abdallah


Idris Ali tells the story of the time when Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) was


sleeping under one cover with his wife Ayesha, and he asked her permission


to get up to pray.




Un-Ideal Husband: Unhelpful


The failure to help in the house and to help with the raising of the


children are well-known weaknesses of husbands. The video makes it clear


that Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) helped in the house, and Abdul Malik Mujahid


says that a man cannot be an ideal Muslim husband, or even close to a good


husband, if he leaves the responsibility of children completely to the


mother.



Khadija Haffagee tells the story of a father who took a three-month-old


infant to pray with him and after the prayer did the 'tasbih" on the child's


hand. This, she said, was training by the father. Dr. Quick warns that when


training our children, we should be careful not to raise sons with a double


standard where they have no household responsibilities. If we do, they will


likely grow up with the attitude that they don't need to do this kind of


work --- that they are above it.

 Prophet: An Ideal Father


As a beautiful example of a healthy father-child relationship, Abdul Malik


Mujahid tells the story of how the Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) used to stand up


for his daughter Fatima, kiss her, and give her his seat when she came to


him. This was in an age when people preferred sons and looked down on having


daughters. With this simple act, the Prophet (SAWS) showed us how to express


love and affection for our children --- an essential quality for an ideal


Muslim husband.



An Ideal Ex-Husband

In fact, what emerges from the video is that being an ideal Muslim husband


has very little or nothing to do with the amount of money one has, physical


beauty, or the prestige of one's job. Rather, it has to do with one's


commitment to Allah (SWT), one's knowledge of and willingness to follow the


guidance of Allah (SWT) and the Prophet's example, and one's commitment to


do righteousness even in difficult situations.




The ideal Muslim husband should be humble, gentle, kind, considerate,


caring, loving, open to good advice, willing to cooperate with others in the


family rather than dictate rules, helpful in the house, involved in raising


the children, and never abusive either physically or mentally.




No doubt, this is a very tall order. Becoming an ideal Muslim husband will


certainly not be easy. It will take a jihad against 'jahiliyyah" thinking,


selfishness, ego, vanity, anger, pride, and arrogance.




Bottom Line

Full of excellent advice, encouragement, and wisdom, this video should help


any Muslim husband to improve. Although there are no guarantees that he will


ever become an ideal Muslim husband, it will, InshaAllah, start him on the


way.




source:  http://iluvislam.com/english/lifestyle/marriage/484-the-ideal-muslim-husband.html

Irritating!!!

Hi All.. lama i x update my blog kan?  Bukannya takde citer ada...tapinya... ntah la... mungkinkah my workload mencemburui I? May be... hahahahaha...

Oklah berbalik kepada tajuk entry I nih... well, mak sebenaqnya tengah bengang ngan someone nih.  Well, there's opening for job vacancies kat my organisation nih... so, with the qualification that I have, mak applied for a higher post than present which I consider match my qualification....

Then here comes this Hamba Allah.. who just gotta know bout it siap-siap sound suh mak amik tau sket the nature of work of the post that I applied for which HA tu sometimes does.  Dah la tu siap cakap lagi jangan tau nak distribute jer... should look in detail of what action to be taken, etc.  Hello... dah bos mak assigned hang tuk take any necessary action.. Bukannya assigned mak.. betul tak.. bukanlah nak berkira... but sometimes I do help this HA also.  Dah la tu dia ni jenis kalo kita inform apa yang tak betul, dia bat derk jer... boley??? Ishkkkkkk!!!!! Tunggu la mak dapat dulu post tu kan... baru la mak blajaq... dowh!!!!!

Yang pastinya that HA's statement is sooooooo IRRITATING laaaaaa!!!!

How Could U??!!!

Two days back, lepas balik dari office, I singgah di Jusco Equine sekejap to get some groceries.  Setelah selesai, went to get my car.  Kebetulan waktu tu ada seorang makcik bersama 3 cucunya:  2 dalam stroller, 1 free) di sebelah kereta I. 

Memandangkan si makcik tersebut sedang membuka pintu di bahagian passenger depan, maka saya merancang untuk masuk ke kereta dari arah belakang supaya tidak mengganggu makcik tersebut.  Elok saya unlock kereta, makcik tu pon dah selesai dengan urusannya dan getting ready untuk kembali kepada cucu2nya yang berada di walkway parking Jusco.  To my surprise, tiba-tiba sahaja makcik tersebut terjatuh kerana terlanggar bonggol di parking tersebut.  I tergamam but managed to help the makcik.  Luckily she was OK.  Dan makcik tersebut merungut bahawa anaknya membawa dia shopping berjam2 lamanya.. Ye la.. orang tua kan.. manalah larat nak jalan lama-lama... Dan pada masa yang sama dia diminta untuk menjaga ketiga2 cucunya.  Poor that makcik.

Setelah I tolong makcik tersebut, I've gotta make a move I excused myself sebab takut exceed 15mins after paying the parking fee.. kang my car xleh kuar lak kan...Then I saw her daughter came... Gosh... How on earth her daughter could do that to her mom??!! You know, rupa2nya dia pegi bayar paking...

Hello Lady... kalau u dah tau that your mom is old and u left your 3kids with her while u pay for the parking fee, TOLONGLAH unlock the car, dan load what u've shopped into your car as well as your kids and your mom.. OR... please pay the parking fee dulu before all of you are out of the building...supaya your mom tu xde la kelam kabut ngan cucu2nya tu...please...please...please use your brain... if you can afford to use your brain to buy a Camry, I'm sure u could do the same to your mom...   Fikir-fikirkan lah... how could you do that to your mom...Think / Plan wisely before you do anything...

Sekadar untuk renungan kita bersama..

Tahniah!!!

Tahniah kepada my youngest and only brother, Farhan and my niece, Afini dan semua yang telah menduduki peperiksaan PMR tempohari.

My brother scored 8As and been offered to a Permata Pintar school which is located at UKM according to my younger sister.  Well, I hope that he makes a wise decision either to stay at SMSAS or continue his journey at the Permata Pintar school.  We support whatever your decision is for the best of you future, bro..

On the other hand, my niece managed to score 7As 1B.  She was so frustrated as she aimed to score 8As.  I must congratulate her despite of the family problem that she faced, she still managed to score a good result walaupun it doesn't meet her target.  And thank Allah that she still can continue her journey at Asmah.

Once again.. CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS!!!!!

Mind of a 6yo

My cousin's son who was admitted in the hospital over the weekend due to high fever.  Her son He is 6yo.  Dia sangat tak suka being admitted to the hospital. Ye la.. budak mana yang suka kan... kena drip, kena check temperature, kena makan ubat, etc. 

He was so bored staying in the hospital, maka he made an escape to Empire plan.  Nak pegi ToysRus katanya.  This was what he did according to his mom:-

1)  Wore a hooded sweater to cover his hand (sebab ada jarum drip kat situ.. ini kes nak avoid nurse la ni..)
2)  Put his wallet in the stroller basket (to pay for the cab from SunMed~Empire)
3)  Placed his drinking bottle inside the stroller basket
4)  Persuade his dad to go downstairs for a walk in a stroller
5)  Sampai je kat entrance hospital, dia terus ajak his daddy pi tunggu cab to Empire..

Fuh!  Sungguh tak sangka a 6yo boy boleh plan sampai camtu skali.

Eidul Adha 2010

Hye All... where will you and family be celebrating this coming Eidul Adha?  My family and I are going back to my hubby's hometown in Kedah starting 16 - 19 November 2010... Syoknyer... last we balik kampung was during the month of Ramadhan.. just right before the Eid Mubarak.. owh..I miss both my parents-in-law and my mom in-law's cooking...  ooppss.. i'm drooling now... *malu* hehehehe

To those who will be travelling down south and up north of the Peninsular Malaysia, drive carefully and safely, think of you loved ones.... and wishing all Muslims out there..

a very happy and joyous

Eidul Adha

Sepi

Salam All,

Hmmm... rasanya dah lama blog ni sepi kan?? well... bukan xder citer.. ada.. but tuan tanah is sooooo... busy beeee.... haiyah... well.. sabar ye fwensss and readers... new post will be up very soon... tungguuuu...

Mr RIGHT, Ms Right

Mr./Ms. Right or Mr./Ms. Always Right??? Hmmm....how to deal with a person who thinks that he/she is ALWAYS RIGHT eventhough he/she is not in that situation...Susah kan dealing with this kinda peeps? There will sure be a mixture of emotions when dealing with them... mana x nyer... while driving, when a car hit a pot hole, blame it on the pot hole. etc.. How to deal with them yeah?  Remain silent is not the best solution I supposed as we will be blamed most of the time and these type of peeps will take advantage on you... So peeps, I welcome any comments/suggestions from uols...

Salam Aidilfitri

Salam Aidilfitri to all my friends and readers

Mohon maaf atas segala kesilapan dan terkasar bahasa sekiranya ada

Semoga lebaran ini membawa seribu erti buat anda semua...

Salam Aidilfitri

Salam Ramadhan

Salam Ramadhan dan selamat menunaikan ibadah puasa kepada semua muslimin dan muslimat.. Semoga puasa serta ibadah kita di bulan Ramadhan Al-Mubarak ini diterima oleh Allah SWT... InsyaAllah...

A Weekend @ Cyberjaya

Wiken ni aku kena keja.. adeh.. malasnya.. tapi apakan daya... "Saya yang menurut perintah"... this time around bengkel Kesetaraan Kolej Swasta ni di buat @ Cyberview Lodge Resort & Spa, Cyberjaya... sib baik dah bat arrangements in advance ngan babysitter for the kiddos to sleep over at her place... Looks like dear hubby will keep me accompany over the weekend... some say it's our hanimun... hanimun??? xder maknanya kalo kena keja dari pagi sampai malam... even nak menikmati suasana kat hotel tu to the fullest pon x dapek... hanimun ke mende... above and all that, deluxe chalet dorang sangatlah besarrrr.... sebesar rumahku.. can u imagine?? Their chalet is a size of a single-storey link house... memang best la... walaupun aku hanya dapat tido & makan jer kat situ...ooohhh... lupa.. and i enjoyed sleep on their 4-posted bed dan the matress... sangat empukkkkkk.....

Tetamu Tak Diundang

Last Thursday, dear hubby found a rabbit underneath our car... that was 1 of the 4 rabbits that we saw a day earlier... x sangka plak dia ada kat rumah kami... then, when hubby started to warm up the car engine, he ran away.. ingatkan jauh la sangat larinya.. rupa-rupanya kat area pokok bunga aku jer... To my surprise, on Friday afternoon bila aku balik dari office tuk tukar baju before ke hospital, I saw the same rabbit again.. dan ia sangat jinak... and hubby baru discover yang rabbit itu duduk di bawah pergola rumah kami... dan dia masih berada di rumah kami sepanjang hari Sabtu minggu lepas... habis pokok-pokok yang aku tanam dimakannya.. yang best tu, pokok pegaga aku licin.. dimakan dek rabbit tu.. bukan setakat makan malah siap duduk dalam pasu pegaga tu untuk melicinkan lagi pokok pegaga aku... nak marah.. tapi sebab rabbit tu cute sangat.. x jadi nak marah.. hehehe

Happy Mother's Day

Another dusty entry.. hihihi... This Mother's Day frame was made by Yasmine & her teacher in school... lovely... and hope it's not too late though it's already TOO LATE wish all super momma out there a

Happy Mother's Day!!!

Pullman Putrajaya, Msian Waterski Championship.. Dating....

Ni la antara activity aku last wiken.. where i had to work over the weekend... ada workshop @ Pullman Putrajaya on Saturday and ends on Sunday before lunch hour... the kids are at the babysitter's... habis jer workshop on Sunday, had lunch with dear hubby at Alamanda, then we watched the waterski championship...

The Hotel

The Room (overdone and small)

The Model.. hehehe

During Earth Hour...