Eiiii.... U're Getting on My Nerve la Creature!!!

I don't write about others in my blog.  I would prefer to write about my family and I... coz they are the most precious treasure in my life.

But today, I decided to write about this creature... for the first time...  I hate it when you:-

• ALWAYS think you are right even when you are wrong... kiranya cam cakap ko jek la yang betul yang orang kena ikut....
• don't consider others' opinions even if the opinion is to ease your work... so... bosom....
• ALWAYS complaining that you are loaded with work whenever a new task is given BUT at the same time you are busy surfing the internet viewing your social networking page, your recipe sites, etc. 
• ALWAYS talking and complaining bout others on the phone for a long personal chat where U'RE THE SAME
• ALWAYS bias with clients / staff... yang ko suka ko layan... yang ko tak suka ko treat  them 'VERY POLITELY'...hello...!!!! that's not the correct etiquette, creature!!!
• ALWAYS bat baik ngan orang... but belakang dia ko said something bad / complaining about him / her
• ALWAYS tak puas hati with what ever happens and ALWAYS threaten to bring the matter to a higher level la......I can say ko ni jenis orang yang tak leh cope with the organisational change la....Aku rasa it's best you be a SAHM... for all you know, SAHM pon banyak gheja ok....
• ALWAYS menyibuk pasal orang lain... you're such a NOSER, creature!!!

Hmmm.... letih dah aku ni writing bout you, Creature.... Enough is enough... bawak-bawaklah muhasabah diri tu....   Apapun, thanx to my blog yang jadik the ground for me to release my anger, kemenyampahan, kemeluatan and what ever towards that creature... I feel relief now.....

Wordless Wednesday #1

Bread Pudding
May 8, 2011

Excited

Assalammualaikum.... Hmm... dah lama rasanya blog ni not been updated kan.... it's either the author xder cerita to share or malas..... but I guess both... hahahahahaha.... Ok... back on track.... esok my daughter yasmine ada field trip kindy dia ke Sunway Lagoon Petting Zoo... She gets really excited yooo....Asek2 la nyanyi lagu ni 'yeay.. yeay... i'm going for a field trip'... dah la tu siap pesan kat I and dear hubby to buy her a new bag.  According to her, her teacher told her not to bring her SR bag for the field trip... but bring another bag instead... ye la.. SR bag tu normally isi her school books.  Atas alasan itu, dear hubby agreed to buy her a bag.  She wanted a princess bag....OK fine... Somehow, petang semalam, suddenly she realised that she already had a princess bag.  So, she told me that there's no need to purchase a new one.. she will use that particular princess bag for her field trip... Alhamdulillah... What a relief.... bukanlah we all ni berkira ngan anak2... NO!!!! But kenapa mesti membazir getting her another bag when she has another one at home kan.... betul tak???

I Love You, Moms

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This entry is specially dedicated to my both moms....



Mak,
Thank you for bringing me into this world. Thank you for being such a great mom and dad to me. Thank you for educating me with ilmu duniawi and akhirat. Thank you for holding my wedding reception. Thank you for taking care of me during confinement. Thank you for being there with me through the ups and downs. Thank you for cooking and tapawing for me and hubby sumptuous meal whenever you're coming to KL. Thank you for everything. Thank you for being my mom. I LOVE you, MAK...though I dunno how to show my love towards you, but that doesn't mean that I don't love you.


Mak,
Thank you for bringing my hubby into this world. Thank you for being such a wonderful mom-in-law. Thank you for treating your menantu like your own child where we can chat, gossip and share stories/things and sometimes do things together. Thank you for preparing sumptuous meal for us whenever we balik kampung..even before we wake up in the morning, the breakfast is always ready. Thank you for being such a great tok to my children. Thank you for all your advises and tips of life. Thank you for being such an open minded mom. Thank you for being with us through the ups and downs. Thank you for taking care of me during confinement. Thank you for everything. I LOVE you, MAK though I dunno how to show my love towards you, but that doesn't mean that I don't love you.

I LOVE BOTH my MAKs... because without them, my hubby and me would not be in this world..

Happy Mothers' Day to my both Maks and to all moms out there...

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Ideal Muslim Husband

Most Muslim men would like to be ideal husbands. And most Muslim women


would, no doubt, like to be married to one. But, for some reason, the men


are not ideal husbands, and the women will almost surely admit that they


didn't marry one.



So, why the discrepancy between our sincere aspirations and reality? Is it


an inability on the part of the man, an impossible goal; or is it perhaps


that we do not even know what an ideal Muslim husband is?





Wrong Concept of an Ideal Husband


A look at the matrimonial section of an Islamic magazine will quickly


demonstrate that many Muslim men and women do not know what an ideal Muslim


husband is. Muslim men looking for wives advertise themselves as doctors,


engineers, and financially secure. Muslim women appear to be on the lookout


for an established professional or more likely a handsome MD.



Rarely do Muslim men and women even mention character, religious


convictions, and attitudes as a priority. At most, they might be mentioned


as a sidebar. It seems that many of us believe that a man is an ideal Muslim


husband if he is handsome, makes a lot of money, and comes from an


influential family. And the divorce rate among Muslims continues to rise.






Standard of Judging an Ideal Husband


As Muslims, we must base our judgment on what makes an ideal Muslim husband


on the guidance of Allah () and the example of Prophet Muhammad (SAWS), not


on the standards of a TV sitcom, the culture in which we were born, or our


own materialistic mentality.


Characteristic of an:

Un-Ideal Husband: Hot Temper


A major problem in some Muslim marriages unfortunately is the husband's hot


temper and harsh behavior. Some even go so far as to abuse their wives. Dr.


Quick gives a word of warning to these men who often come from cultures that


teach them to be tough and macho.



He says that there should be no violence between husband and wife and that


Muslim men should not be the kind of tyrannical fathers whose children run


away and hide when their father comes home. He says that we have to separate


our non-Islamic cultures from Islam. The ideal Muslim husband will base his


behavior on Islam, not on his Arab, American, or Pakistani culture.




Un-Ideal Husband: Egoistic

Another major problem in Muslim marriages is the husband's failure to


consider his wife's opinions. In fact, Abdallah Idris Ali says that the


failure of the Muslim Ummah as a whole has to do with our failure in


practicing the concept of Shura (consultation). People think that they are


right and others are wrong, he says.




We will do much better if we consider the opinions of others and let them


feel that they are a part of the decision-making process. Along the same


lines, Dr. Quick points out that if a woman makes a true (haqq) point, the


husband should submit to it. He should in no way reject a point just because


it comes from a woman.




Demonstrating the huge difference between the way the Prophet (SAWS) dealt


with his wives and the way Muslim men deal with their wives today, Abdallah


Idris Ali tells the story of the time when Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) was


sleeping under one cover with his wife Ayesha, and he asked her permission


to get up to pray.




Un-Ideal Husband: Unhelpful


The failure to help in the house and to help with the raising of the


children are well-known weaknesses of husbands. The video makes it clear


that Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) helped in the house, and Abdul Malik Mujahid


says that a man cannot be an ideal Muslim husband, or even close to a good


husband, if he leaves the responsibility of children completely to the


mother.



Khadija Haffagee tells the story of a father who took a three-month-old


infant to pray with him and after the prayer did the 'tasbih" on the child's


hand. This, she said, was training by the father. Dr. Quick warns that when


training our children, we should be careful not to raise sons with a double


standard where they have no household responsibilities. If we do, they will


likely grow up with the attitude that they don't need to do this kind of


work --- that they are above it.

 Prophet: An Ideal Father


As a beautiful example of a healthy father-child relationship, Abdul Malik


Mujahid tells the story of how the Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) used to stand up


for his daughter Fatima, kiss her, and give her his seat when she came to


him. This was in an age when people preferred sons and looked down on having


daughters. With this simple act, the Prophet (SAWS) showed us how to express


love and affection for our children --- an essential quality for an ideal


Muslim husband.



An Ideal Ex-Husband

In fact, what emerges from the video is that being an ideal Muslim husband


has very little or nothing to do with the amount of money one has, physical


beauty, or the prestige of one's job. Rather, it has to do with one's


commitment to Allah (SWT), one's knowledge of and willingness to follow the


guidance of Allah (SWT) and the Prophet's example, and one's commitment to


do righteousness even in difficult situations.




The ideal Muslim husband should be humble, gentle, kind, considerate,


caring, loving, open to good advice, willing to cooperate with others in the


family rather than dictate rules, helpful in the house, involved in raising


the children, and never abusive either physically or mentally.




No doubt, this is a very tall order. Becoming an ideal Muslim husband will


certainly not be easy. It will take a jihad against 'jahiliyyah" thinking,


selfishness, ego, vanity, anger, pride, and arrogance.




Bottom Line

Full of excellent advice, encouragement, and wisdom, this video should help


any Muslim husband to improve. Although there are no guarantees that he will


ever become an ideal Muslim husband, it will, InshaAllah, start him on the


way.




source:  http://iluvislam.com/english/lifestyle/marriage/484-the-ideal-muslim-husband.html

Creative

Adoila anak daraku.... tengok kakak menulis, dia pon macam la pandai sangat... sibuk amek pencil...nak menulis jugak... bukan takat tulis sambil duduk, ini siap meniarap lagi... nantilah kalo ada gambonye, I'll make an entry about it.

Entry kali ni pon pasal stationery kakak la ni... few months back, hubby ada belikan kakak magic pens from Ikea.. We all sorok sebab kakak contiang bukan stakat kat buku... even her limbs and face pon dia contiang jugak... satu keja pulak mama yang sental kaki tangan muka tu time shower... hadehhhh....

But now, activity menyelongkar Yasmine telah membuahkan hasil where she finally found her magic pens again.... and resume her activity... sebab dah besar, kakak dah tak contiang kat kaki tangan muka dah...Alhamdulillah... Akan tetapi.... si CANAZ pulak yang INHERITED.... hadusss.... tengoklah muka si budak montel ni setelah ditouch up ngan magic pen kaler orange...

Lost of A Close Friend

Last Friday, April 28, 2011 adalah merupakan last day one of my kawan rapat, Naieela bekerja di sini...huhuhuhu... sedeyyy...  Well the reason dia resign wasn't because she got a better offer elsewhere... but she wanted to pursue her study.... All of us have to respect her noble intention to resign as she wanted to concentrate on mendalami ilmu Al-Quran. 

I've known her since Aug 2008 that was since I joined this office.  Time baru-baru kenal tu I wonder apsal la budak ni selalu masuk my office ikut connecting door... dah la tu... selalu bergaduh ngan my colleague, Nasir, bat my office cam ofis dia, conquer the copier machine, etc.  Berlagak ala tak matured gittew... But as time goes by, I get to know her better... She's a NICE GIRL... really nice...

Naieela... she's the kind of girl yang berkelakuan childish (but have a matured thinking whenever you ask for the opinion), hormat orang yang lebih tua, sopan...(awak sopan ke nell??? hmmm... boleyla.. bagi kredit sket.. hehehehe), rajin, helpful, pemurah and also pandai masak... she loves to bake and sometimes akan bawak apa yang dia bake tu (regardless menjadi or otherwise) for all of us to have a taste of it... And dengan dia jugak lah all of us (kak sya, nieza, myself and nasir ~ sometimes) go out for lunch... name it... D'Ateh? Surau Ijau? Anje? Ikram? Ntah mana-mana? We always together...

And now she has left us for her better future... Tatau nak cakap apa dah... I shed my tears on her last day... sedey sebab our another close friend is leaving us.....I even had tears in my eyes while writing this entry.  Now dah takde orang yang akan menyinggah my office on the way to the ladies... dah takde orang yang akan conquer the photocopier in my office.... and dah takde orang yang akan bagi brownies to my office... huhuhuhu.... U'll be missed, Nell....

On behalf of our friends and myself, wishing you all the best in your future undertaking.... do keep in touch with us.. and do pay us a visit if you have a spare time to do so... adiossss senorita...

Our memoir:  Apreciation Nite 2009

Memoir with TDB Office's Staff

A Goodbye Kiss for You, Nell..

2 in 1

Hehehehehehe... jangan terpedaya ngan title entry tu ye... This entry is not about shampoo 2 in 1 atau shampoo yang taglinenyer... 'guna jari pon boleyyyy'... hehehehe

Well, entry ni is sambungan kepada ini.... After 2 months, barulah I dapat my birthday pressie...on my hubby's birthday... Happy Birthday, Laling... That's why the title of this entry is '2 in 1' ^_^ ....

This pressie is very meaningful to me.... No words can explained it.  Mana tidaknya...It has been 7 years.. (lama gila dowh..) since I last tengok Wings live perfomance.   Kalo dulu asal Wings perform at Planet Hollywood ja, sure both of us ada kat situ.. The performance  then was on Sunday nite... x kisah la the next day tu keja ke tak, we were surely there. 

Ok.. back to this entry... This concert was held at Istana Budaya from April 29 - May, 1, 2011.  Our tix is on April 30, 2011... birthday my laling la tu... hehehehe... We were there at about 7.45pm... parking full oooo... we finally parked our car at the Balai Senilukis Negara.. and had dinner there (sbb kat situ ada so-called flea market every weekend).  Around 8.15pm barulah kami enter the hall lepas jumpa Farah & Sab.  Wings is the first rock band yang bat performance @ IB.  This performance is accompanied by Okestra Simfoni Kebangsaan..... syiok giler wa cakap lu.... bunyi gesekan violins tu bisa bat I meremang bulu roma.... I enjoyed the show to the maxxx sampai kalo buley nak tengok lagi the next nite i.e. Ahad (May 1, 2011 ~ Last day).  Sampaikan dear hubby pon noticed yang he could see that I enjoyed more than him... hihihhii...As I said.. no words can describe it.. so uols layan the pics ye... enjoy...

Full house I tell you..... Tickets sold out!!

The show's OVER!!!! sob...sob...sob...

Sham, Joe, Awie, Black & Mel